Abuse: The Warning Signs

Partner is overly possessive and extremely jealous; may accuse you of flirting, calls to check on you often and insists on knowing where you are or where you are going.
Partner seems to lack own interests and is overly dependent on relationship.
Partner discourages your own outside interests and friend ships, and attempts to isolate you from family and friends.
Partner is overly critical, finding fault with your dress, talents and conduct.
Partner has poor communication skills and refuses or is unable to settle differences with words.
Partner's abuse increases with the use of alcohol or drugs.
Partner tries to sabotage your work or school efforts, possibly forcing or convincing you to quit against your wishes.
Partner tries to control the money and decisions.